Pieces of Him

Girls talk about guys all the time. How their dumb, their another species, they aren’t gentlemen, and the insults continue on and on. The thing is guys in our generation to us seem to lack so many things that a young lady like myself would keep adding on to her list of what she doesn’t want in a guy. As ladies we all have this profile for the type of guy we want, however the truth is that guy in our profiles does not exist. Here is the TRUTH. The TRUTH is simple. There is no such thing as “The responsible type dude,” “The grown man,” “The Hood Nigga,” “The business man,” “The family man,” and the lists goes on. The men we truly want have different pieces to them. They are not just one kind of person, but are made up of a multitude of colors. Similar to a rainbow. It is important for us ladies to remember that we are not going to get this man all at once. We’re only going to get pieces of him one piece at a time. We may not like all the pieces we get but they are growing and changing just like our pieces. PATIENCE is key. Sometimes you gotta move on to get a better set of pieces that suit you better. Sometimes you gotta match your pieces with his and work through them. The moral is simple. A bond between two growing individuals is better than a bond between two separate individuals. Think about it.